See Both Sides
of Every Story
Challenge assumptions, understand multiple perspectives, and adapt when situations change.
What happened from your perspective?
How might the other person see it?
What facts might both sides be missing?
Why do I believe this?
What evidence supports me?
What experience shaped my opinion?
Why might they believe this?
What evidence supports them?
What am I failing to see?
"My colleague didn't reply because he is ignoring me."
"Maybe he is busy, unavailable, or hasn't seen the message."
"Should employees work from home?"
First argue FOR it.
Now switch sides.
Argue AGAINST it.
You don't have to change your opinion. You have to understand the other one.
"This is the best solution."
"But this problem has appeared."
"Then let's reconsider our solution."
What does each side believe?
What assumptions am I making?
Can I argue the opposite position?
Has new information changed the situation?
Understand → Question → Switch → Adapt